Sex is a phenomenal activity among human beings. It is a very sweet, passionate experience for anybody that engages in the act. Sometimes though, some people wonder if transgender people can have the same sexual experience as cisgender. The simple answer is that they do enjoy sex, both between themselves and with cisgender people. Here are the tips that will help you have hot, steamy and amazing sex with a transgender partner.
Who is a Transgender Partner?
But first, let’s understand what all these terms mean. If this is the first time you are coming across the term transgender and cisgender, this article will help you to know the meaning. Transgender is a term that encompasses all those that do not identify with the sexual orientation they were given at birth. Usually, as soon as a woman gives birth, the child is called a male or female child based on the genitals he or she came to the world with.
But as the child grows up, he may start identifying with the opposite sex. Some then go ahead and have a sex reassignment surgery done to change their genitals to the sex they identify with. These group of people that don’t identify with the particular sex they assigned at birth, through their sexual expression and behavior, are grouped as trans. They may be born male, but chooses to identify as female. They may be born female but chooses to identify as male. There are some people that see themselves as both male and female while others have not really taken one sex as theirs. This type of person is the transgender partner in a relationship.
Can These groups of Persons Have Sex?
Can they enjoy intercourse with cisgender people, that is those that identify with the sex they were given at birth, or is sex only possible with other trans people? It turns out that they can have mind-blowing sex with anyone. So if you are in a relationship with a transgender partner, here are the tips:
You have to be comfortable with yourself and your partner for you to have a meaningful relationship. You need to like yourself, love, and accept yourself especially if you are the trans person in the relationship. This is because a lot of people may not yet understand your sexual behaviors and identities, so you have to explain to them. But if you do not accept yourself, it will be hard for anyone to accept you.
This is vital in any relationship even those involving parents and children. But it is more vital in a relationship involving transgenders and cisgenders who have a sexual relationship. Proper communication will help you avoid any misunderstanding in the union. Ask the right questions and get adequate before you agree to anything.
Use Different Positions
Make your sex life fun by trying different positions. Variety is the spice of life, is a popular saying. It is also true in sexual play, so don’t depend only on missionary style. Try out spooning, doggy, belly up and other styles. You can also have oral and anal sex to spice up your sex life.