Fashion and Beauty Tips for the Trans Women

Tips for the Trans Women

You’ve lived a portion of your life as a man and now you’re finally a woman. That’s great. But even the best of us struggle with finding the perfect outfits and the best makeup looks for certain occasions. Here are a few tips that are sure to help every MTF Trans Woman out there:

DOS

• Dress Your Age

You may be tempted to compensate for years lived as male but if you want to be respected as a woman you will have to dress according to your age. Therefore, if you are approaching 40 you should not be wearing jeans shorts and crop tops like a teenage girl. Women around this age are usually more refined and dress as such.

• Use Concealer

If you are still transitioning but desire to wear makeup concealer should be your best friend. A good quality concealer will hide your aftershave, the bags under your eyes and any other feature that risks you looking more masculine than feminine.

• Ask Sales Clerks for Their Opinion on Anything Before you Buy It

If you are uncertain about how an outfit looks it is best to consult the sales clerk before making a purchase. These persons are usually competent enough to determine whether a certain outfit is a good look for an individual based on factors such as height, shape, age, skin tone, etc.

• Research

If you want to be on top of the latest fashion trends and styles you will have to do your research. This involves following up fashion icons and websites both trans women and cis women. A great place to start is Instagram and Pinterest.

DON’TS

• Don’t be Afraid to Try New Things

If you are comfortable in your own skin, you should not be afraid to try new things. After all, that is what fashion is all about: mixing and matching styles and patterns you haven’t thought of before and being bold in what you decide to wear. Be mindful however of the situations you are in and carefully consider if such an outfit would be appropriate for such an event.

• Don’t Contour

Every makeup guru you watch down to teens in high school are highlighting and contouring when doing their makeup. But this doesn’t mean that you should. Contouring can do more harm than good especially if your features have not been softened by hormones or fillers. Contouring will highlight your bone structure giving you a more masculine finish. Instead, replace your contour with highlight to make your face appear softer and more feminine.

• Don’t Overdo It on the Makeup

Makeup should be used in moderation unless you are trying to hide unsightly scars or birthmarks or to color correct. If you overdo it on the makeup you risk looking more like a drag queen than a woman of stature and chances are you probably won’t be taken very seriously.

• Don’t Mix Prints, Whites or Blacks

A very simple rule for every girl to live by when it comes to everyday fashion is “Don’t mix prints, whites or blacks”. As it relates to whites and blacks, it is very hard to find two pieces of clothing that are the same shade of white or black (unless they are a part of a set) and chances are that one will throw the other off. (This does not mean they cannot mix well but you are safer avoiding that risk). Mixing prints can be very disastrous if not done correctly and chances are two unique prints will not go together. Always say no to mixing stripes and polka dots or lines and squares. This will save you from committing a fashion sin.

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Inspiring Story of A Trans Woman — Isis King

Isis King is an American actress, fashion designer, and top model. Isis was assigned male gender at birth. However, she has stated that individuals may allude to her as transgender. She was the first transgender female to contend on the show and became one of the most visible trans individuals on TV.

Isis King had been runway modelling for a long time before partaking in America’s Next Top Model. Isis is one of a small but growing number of transgender people and characters in film and television, and her inclusion on America’s Next Top Model has been called an “unprecedented opportunity” by Neil Giuliano, president of Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. By contending on the show, she has focused on national and prime time issues of sexual orientation changing and sex expression.

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4 Types of Guys That a Trans Woman Will Surely Meet from Dating Online

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Transgender women like any other women also believe that their knight in shining armor is just around the corner. Armed with high hopes they are optimistic too that one way to find him is through dating online.

When dating a man whom you only knew from an online trans dating site you are most likely to encounter their different types and you need to be aware of.

The Guy Who Is Curious About The Trans Woman

This type of guy is usually the first timer to date a transsexual woman. He is so intrigued on anything about you, with your looks, your body and the way you move. He is also excited to know how it feels to date a trans woman and trying to process everything that is going on that day from start to finish so that he won’t forget. Expect to have so many questions from this guy. He is curious and dying to know a lot.

Experimental by Nature

This is a guy who only wants to date you just to discover something about you – particularly the physical you. He is an aggressive kind who will invite you to a one night stand right away without the getting to know each other process yet. He likes physical intimacy more to fulfill his trial and error demonstration. This guy is trying to prove some facts about a transgender woman in various aspects. Therefore, I conclude that you must be vigilant with this type because a transwoman like you should not be a subject for mere experimentation.

A Transgender Female Fetish Guy

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This particular man is so engrossed in meeting and dating for sexual purposes alone. A kind of sex maniac guy who is focused to target a transgender female for him to be satisfied. He likes places that are less public to make sure no one recognizes him when he is with you. One thing you will notice when he is a fetish guy is his being uneasy as if someone is following him. Beware, you might fall in love with this type of a guy for him being romantic on your first date without knowing that it’s a trap in order to make him feel more aroused. For him, you are only perceived as the sex object and nothing more than that.

The Random Guy

He loves to date anyone he likes in the online dating site. He clicks and clicks, then picks, then sets for a date. This type of guy is a bit scary because he doesn’t pay much attention to what you will say to him before you will see each other because his mind is only preoccupied with his eagerness to see you in person. What if he thinks you are a straight girl but on your date, he noticed that you are not and it’s because he was not listening to your confession then in your chat? Sounds terrifying right?

Dating is fun and exciting. It is being paralleled to a game of chance because it is an opportunity to somehow meet the one.

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Beautiful Transgender Brides

For some of them to be the bride was only a dream. But they were persistent in their desire. And that day comes.

Felix and Helen Fenlon’s wedding: Britain’s first double sex swap wedding. Felix said: “This is the first day of the life I always wanted to lead – as the right sex with the right person by my side.

Maxwell and Janis were so inspired by Felix and Helen’s courageous decision to make their wedding public they asked the Fenlon’s to be their best man and bridesmaid at a renewal of vows. Janis, who used to be Ian – said: “Maxwell is my soulmate.”

Daliah Husu, who was born Luis Miguel Morris, and her husband Ruben Husu. Daliah was just four years old when she realized she was different from other boys – she loved dressing up as a lady. She said: “My aunt used to call me ‘little woman’. It was her way of saying: ‘It’s ok, there’s nothing wrong with it’.”

Russian Trans and cisgender woman marry legally. Trans woman Irina Shumilova, hasn’t been able to amend her legal documents so when she married Alyona Fursova they broke no laws.

They did however set the author of the ‘gay propaganda’ law head spinning. The couple has used this fact to officially register their relationship because under the Family Code of Russia marriage is “a voluntary consent of a man and a woman.”

Ignacio Estrada and Wendy Iriepa (Born as Alexis), tied the knot in a simple civil ceremony on the same day as Fidel Castro’s 85th birthday. They called wedding a ‘gift’ to the former leader. Then, they draped themselves in the rainbow flag of gay pride to ride through the streets of Havana.

Joanne Cassar, the transgender woman who fought an eight-year legal battle for her right to marry – paving the way for others – became Joanne Sciberras Edwards with her new husband Kurstin.

Jamie Eagle and Louis Davies: The 21-year-old bride, Jamie, was born a boy and the 26-year-old groom, Louis, was born a girl. And given the pits of despair, they have both endured (and still do) along with their transgender journey, it was a day they often wondered would ever happen.“We thought long and hard before agreeing to it, because life is difficult enough for us, without TV cameras encroaching into our daily lives and struggles,” admits Louis. “But in the end, that was our motive for going ahead. We want people to have a sense of what our lives are really like so that when they talk about transgender issues, they are more informed.”

Trans Icon Janet Mock’s Dreamy Hawaiian Wedding: Transgender icon Janet Mock and Aaron Tredwell married on the island of Oahu. “I struggled to imagine what my big day would look like because I’d never let myself believe I’d have one. I never imagined I’d be a bride. – she said.

To that, the photographer groom, who proposed to Mock after five years of dating, said, “I know she felt that way, and I say it’s ridiculous. I’m the lucky one in this relationship. I’ll be forever grateful that she chose me.”

Transgender model Carmen Carrera and husband Adrian Torres.

“Honestly, knowing that I was going home a married woman gave me a sense of peace… This wedding has given us a sense of freedom to be proud of what we have and who we are. Celebrating our love and what we call our ‘modern, modern family,’ lets us know that we belong here and that we also have a place to raise a family of our own on our terms. We feel truly blessed.”

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Shopping Tips for Transgender Women

Shopping Tips for Transgender Women

Transgender Woman: The Beginner’s Guide to Shopping

It can be difficult for a Transgender Woman who is new to the shopping world because there are many factors to consider before going cloth shopping. Here, you will receive a beginner’s guide on how to go on your first cloth shopping as a Trans Woman.

The most efficient way to find the perfect clothing styles and designs is to do some look-shopping before you start your clothes shopping. Watch television, check out your celebrity idols to copy their design style, read a magazine, go out or you can even surf the internet for what you like and make research because what may fit others may not suit you due to different reasons such as eye color, hair style, body shape, and size etc. After gathering all your data, you will be certain you know what you want.

Steps to take when shopping

First of all, you need to be confident about yourself, because you are going to be selecting female wears in an open space with lots of people around and shouldn’t bother yourself about what people say or think, because you are a customer who is patronizing the store and you will be surprised at how quickly you will get accustomed to this sort of thing if you understand that nothing is wrong with you being a Transgender Woman looking to buy some clothes, it’s all in your head, the sooner you get used to it, the better off you will be. Secondly, you have to put yourself in a good mood, try to get excited because you will achieve more being pleasant while requesting for help in searching for an item or making your preferred selection. After getting past this factor, the next thing is to search for any popular boutique with lots of wears to suit your taste, so we don’t have to continuously change stores also keeping in mind the price tag.

Shopping Tips for Trans Women

Now that we’ve covered where to shop, we start to focus on what to buy, we don’t want to get carried away and buy clothes and shoes that are not really needed and would go out of your planned budget, so creating a list of things you would love to buy is very important and also taking your body measurement with you so we don’t have to go back home.

Since you are new to this, it’s going to be weird trying on different kinds of clothes for the first time so get ready to spend extra time in the dressing room because you have to spend lots of time trying to figure out if your new dress or jeans fit you perfectly or to make things easier, you can invite a friend over to help you out or a family member to support you on your first shopping as a Trans Woman. Take your time and try out everything you like, it’s better to spend more time in a store making decisions than for you to be unsatisfied with your purchase at the end of the day. The secret to all this is to just be yourself, have fun and don’t forget to love yourself for who you are.

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Tips for Trans Women: How to Save Your Relationship with a Woman

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To be able to give love, you have to love yourself first. This is a hackneyed phrase but it really applies to everyone especially for trans women who are in a relationship with a woman.

When your closet gets loaded with all your girly stuff, you’ll have a difficult time choosing which one to wear. Just like in love, when you keep a lot of things hidden, it will be hard to make your relationship flourish. There should be transparency between two people so that both parties get to focus on nourishing their connection rather than keeping a secret.

Hiding anything from your partner will only bring you too much stress. She is constantly beside you and there’s no way you can stop her from noticing even the slightest changes in your ways.

It is understandable that you are concerned about how the woman in your life will react to you being a trans woman. But you should not focus on that because no matter how many times you think about it, you will not know her response until you tell her the real you.

True love knows no boundary. Your partner may not have the best reaction when she discovers you are a trans woman. But if her love is pure, she will eventually understand. If she lets love prevail, she will come to realize how wonderful it is to know you deeper. She will appreciate your honesty and she will take pleasure in seeing you exude with happiness the moment you go out in the open.

Male to Female Trans WomanAdmitting you are a trans woman does not make your love for your wife or girlfriend any less. Let her feel you would stand by her despite all the changes that are about to happen. The following tips can help you save your relationship with a woman as you try to enjoy your feminine side.

  • The goal is to express yourself to your partner without inhibitions. Make it gentle until she gets used to it. Continue bonding with her but this time, you can share a more feminine activity together such as polishing your nails or taking on a skincare routine.
  • Be consistent in reminding her how much she means to you. Let her know you love her and assure her that you will no longer keep a secret from her.
  • Do not take it against her if there are times she will feel uncomfortable. Give her time to adjusting to the situation.
  • When you feel like she has fully accepted it, you can be more articulate about the things that make you happy. Because she loves you for who you are, she’ll eventually find happiness in anything that pleases you.
  • Make friends with other people but make sure she knows about it. You can join a transgender dating site and be honest about it. If you think she is not open about you having multiple sex partners, give her an assurance that you will not get into anything sexual.
  • Ask her to learn more about transgender individuals by means of reading. She may also explore a transsexual dating site to advance her knowledge.
  • Let her speak with women who have gone through the same experience so she’ll understand how to make your relationship work.
  • Seek professional help if you have to. There are mediators who can help the two of you cope with this phase a lot easier.

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Trans Man – Accepting and Loving Oneself

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One of the greatest challenges a Trans Man face is to accept, embrace and love oneself. To accept themselves for whom they are, their feelings and needs and accepting the fact that not everyone you hold dear to your heart will agree to all your decisions in every step of the way. But choosing to love and honor yourself as a Transgender Man, instead of trying to force others to do it for you every day is the best decision you could ever make in life. We have to understand that our greatest task is not about finding self-love; it’s about breaking down the walls we have built against it in order to know and love yourself, despite our humanness, our flaws, and our rejections. One of the greatest challenges an FTM Transgender Guy face is to accept, embrace and love oneself. To accept themselves for whom they are, their feelings and needs and accepting the fact that not everyone you hold dear to your heart will agree to all your decisions in every step of the way. But choosing to love and honor yourself as a Transgender Guy, instead of trying to force others to do it for you every day is the best decision you could ever make in life. We have to understand that our greatest task is not about finding self-love; it’s about breaking down the walls we have built against it in order to know and love yourself, despite our humanness, our flaws, and our rejections.

Ways to love oneself:

  • Tell yourself the things you love about you by believing in your abilities because you are a rare gem.

  • Start giving yourselves credit for everything you are and everything you’re about to become.

  • Avoid perfectionism because understanding nobody is perfect would make you happier and prevent you from making mistakes, so focus on being a better you by accepting who you are and embracing your flaws.

  • Holding a grudge against yourself is wrong, so one needs to let go and forgive their past mistakes. Always stay positive and overcome negative beliefs about yourself.

  • Building a strong connection with your inner self.

  • Work on your self-trust.

  • And most importantly, take care of yourself.

Earth is filled with over 7 Billion people; you shouldn’t feel lesser or subjected to accept the negative thoughts or opinions of other people. Be the best FTM Trans Guy you can be for yourself and the society, and also treat people the way you desire to be treated.

FTM Transgender GInstead of worrying yourself thinking “I am an incomplete human because I am an FTM Transgender Guy”, you need to think “I am an incredible, special, wonderful and beautiful human being with an overwhelming sense of touch and understanding and is capable of love. Believe you are a source of many wonderful things, and if you desire the need to remember what they are from time to time, make yourself a feel-good list. Keep coming back to the love that is inherently yours, it is your birthright and so it is. Value the good parts of you as well as the parts that you think needs improvement. Learn to admit judgment against yourself and soften those judgments, so that every part of yourself can be valued to highest level there is. Additionally, it is imperative you learn to commit yourself to shift your focus from judgment and criticism to tolerance and compassion. You are a victim of the beliefs you live by, you have the power to create a unique person out of yourself, don’t stop being the best Trans Man you can be.

We sometimes live in bondage of the mental cage we construct by ourselves, be free and love yourself for who you are.

Instead of believing in the idea of other people loving you, Understand the need to love yourself first.

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How to Find Love As An MTF Transgender

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Transitioning can be hard. But finding true love can be even harder. But worry not. It is not impossible. For every single person created, their partner is somewhere out there ready to give them the love, affection, and acceptance they deserve.

The first step is to finding love as an MTF transgender is to love yourself. This is one of the cornerstones of every successful and healthy relationship. Self-love and acceptance also enable you to love others without being clingy, dependent or submissive. Afterall, confidence is sexy and makes you much more attractive.

The second step to finding “the one” is to establish what you are looking for in a partner. Are you looking for someone who is spontaneous? Or someone who is more serious and career-driven? You should also consider who you are typically attracted to. Do you typically date FTM transgender singles? Or perhaps straight, cisgender men? How about a lesbian? What are your racial preferences? Black? White? Asian? You will have to decide beforehand to avoid any confusion or even to avoid spreading yourself too thin.

The next step is to open your mind to the many possibilities when it comes to dating. Love can come when you least expect it and you can fall in love with someone you would have never pictured yourself with. Do not limit yourself to a certain group of individuals because that may very well be the reason you have not found the right person as yet.

Fourthly, you should consider trying some non-traditional forms of dating. Have you ever considered online dating? Dating for MTF transgender has gotten considerably easier with the advent of various dating sites that cater to transsexual people and their needs. These transgender dating sites also serve as a platform for people to express their views in a positive environment, spreading the message of peace, love, and acceptance for all.

Another key step to finding love is being completely honest with your partner. From the onset of your relations, you should make that person privy to your gender identity in order to avoid any unfortunate or embarrassing situations. This could potentially bring you and any potential partner closer together and will allow them and perhaps the wider community to understand your transition, and hopefully others in the future in order to foster increased acceptance of the LGBT community.

MTF transgender DatingLastly, be yourself. It makes no sense to put on a show for someone to impress or attract them. Whoever the person falls in love with should be who you really are and not a character you have created. Chances are this will not end well for anyone.

Bear in mind that love does not have to be in the form of a relationship. Friends and family can also give you the healthy kind of love you deserve. Some things in life cannot be rushed or forced. What is meant to be, will be.

Simply put: Don’t give up on love and it won’t give up on you.

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Surviving in The Society: Transgender MTF

Transgender MTF

Transgender MtF (male to female) refers to a person who was AMAB—assigned the gender “male” at birth. This is mainly because they have a male body. However, they identify as female and want to be referred to as “she” because they realized while growing up that they were females, and is transitioning to life as a woman. This is perfectly normal and should be respected by the society.

Therefore calling a Transgender MtF or FtM is sometimes deemed offensive because the generally accepted term is “trans woman” instead of MtF and “trans man” instead of FtM. It is less provocative to use them except in the cases where it is certain that a person is comfortable with the terms MtF or FtM.

Identity Struggle/Finding Love

In our society, Transgender Women (male to female) has struggled with identity insecurities, deprivation and discrimination because of the common misconception held against them by the society that transsexuals are gay and mentally sick.

One of the problems a transgender MtF face while growing up is getting confused and lost whenever you look in the mirror, seeing a feminine face with a masculine body, trying to deny the fact that there is a girl begging to be let out, going through the process of realizing who you are could be uncomfortable, because of the gender stereotype the society presses on everyone.

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Transgender people suffer dysphoria (being uneasy or unsatisfied with life); this can be about their facial appearance, hair, breasts, genitalia etc. This means they might not be comfortable with this features on their body, not because the style is wrong but because it doesn’t reflect the person they know they are and can actually cause them to feel emotionally broken. The everyday struggle of finding the courage to accept who you really are, because of the false assumption people make based on a gender you did not identify with, trying to figure out if you are a girl, a boy or neither, if you would love or be loved by someone for who you truly are. A million questions keep going through your head, trying to analyze every decision you have made for clues to your questions.

Transgender MtF people find it difficult in meeting other people interested in dating a transgender man or woman due to some factors preventing them such as public prejudice and lack of privacy etc. The transgender dating site was created in order to help transgender people come together from different parts of the world. Dating site for transgender people is one of the easiest and fastest ways to find new friends, meet that special someone you can trust and also create a long-lasting relationship that can lead to love and happiness. This MtF dating site is a platform that is safe, easy and reliable and also helps you to save money by connecting you to others from the comfort of your home and it is also a place for different types of personality so you can select based on your choice.

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Passing Tips for FTM Transgender Men

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The life of a FTM Transgender Men can be very difficult, especially if they don’t pass as male. If you don’t pass as a male, going out in public can be overwhelmingly challenging and intimidating. When someone who is trying to be polite refers to you as “ma’am,” it can be detrimental to your efforts to embrace your masculinity. Below are some tips to help you pass as male in public. While these tips may not fix everything, they will at least decrease the chances of being referred to as “ma’am.”

Wear Clothes Made for Men

FTM Transgender Men

One of the easiest and simplest ways of passing as a male is by wearing male clothes. Unlike female clothes that are designed to highlight curves, men’s clothing tends to be straighter and hides curves. If your body is curvy, wearing male clothes can help you hide your curves. In particular, straight cut pants from the men’s department can help create a flatter behind.

You should try to dress more conservatively that you might have before. This will help you to avoid being mistaken for a lesbian. Simply choose a male image you want to project and cultivate a look to suit that image.

Even out Your Chest

The chest is one of the areas that gives many FTM Transgender Guys a headache. This is because it is very hard to pass as a male when you have a curvy chest. If your chest does protrude, you should invest in a good binder to flatten it. Binding your chest flattens it and gives you a masculine appearance. There are multiple types, so you must do some research and choose the binding methodology that suits you best.

As a side point, binding yourself tightly for too long might be harmful because it causes rib and back pain. It is important to use moderation and give yourself a break from binding occasionally. Also, never use tape or elastic bandages when binding your chest

Get a Hair Cut

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Long hair can have a negative impact on the male image you want to project. If you currently have medium length or long hair, it would be wise to consider a haircut. A good haircut that will certainly help you project a male image. Typical male hairstyles involve keeping your hair short in the back and on the sides.

It is often said that barbers do a much better job at providing a male haircut compared to hairdressers. However, it would be wise to try them both and see which one works better for you. You should not, however, under any circumstances take a pair of scissors and try to do the work yourself. Get a professional haircut, and it will be worth every penny.

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Tips for Before, During, and After the First Date with a Transgender Woman

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After your long search for a transgender girlfriend finally bears fruit, your next move should be to ask her out on a date. Of course, you want to make sure that you impress her during the first date, but this is also the easiest time to mess things up. To boost your chances of a second date, you must do some pre-date planning and preparation. Getting things right during the first date will certainly impress your transgender girlfriend. Below are some valuable tips that will help you have a successful first date.

Give Her Options for the Date Venue

Before the date, you should show your transgender girlfriend that you are thoughtful. Giving her a few options for the date venue will show her that you want her to be comfortable on your first date. Ideally you would come up with at least three options and let her decide which one is most convenient. As a side note, make sure you choose places relatively near her residence so that she feels safe.

Stay Within Your Budget

As a gentleman, you are expected to pay for the first date. Therefore, when you choose the date venues, make sure it is a place you can afford. There is no need to go overboard on a first date; it is reasonable to stay within a comfortable budget. After you have created some rapport with your transgender girlfriend, don’t be ashamed to tell her that you have a limited budget. While you shouldn’t expect her to foot the bill on your first date, you can split the bill or alternate paying for each other later.

Remember Your Chats

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To keep the conversation rolling, you should always try to keep the content of previous chats in the back of your mind. This will help you know which topics your transgender girlfriend is comfortable talking about. If you do want to try a new topic, make sure that it is an interesting one. As a rule of thumb, avoid subjects that are controversial or very personal on the first date, like sex, as they might send a wrong signal to your partner or make her feel uncomfortable.

Ask for a Second Date

If the first date goes well, don’t hesitate to tell your transgender women that you would really love to see her again. If she enjoyed your company too, she would definitely say yes. Being interesting and a little mysterious is a good way to make her want to know you more. It is also important that you make her laugh.

Ask Her to Text You When She Gets Home

Asking her to shoot you a quick text letting you know she got home safely is a quick, easy gesture that tells her that you genuinely care. You can also use this opportunity to thank her for the date and wish her good night.

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How to Display Male Body Language for FTM Transgender Male

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People are very good at reading body language. They can tell whether you are confidence about yourself or if you are tense and nervous just by looking at you. Additionally, male and female body language has some distinct differences in style. As a result, it is important to know what kind of body language is attractive as a FTM transgender male. If you understand and practice attractive body language techniques, you will not only build your confidence but also enjoy an unrivaled masculine image.

Understanding what constitutes as male body language and knowing the influence it has on other people can be very advantageous, particularly when you are dealing with women. If you want a woman to find you irresistibly attractive, then you must know how to project attractive male body language. However, it is worth mentioning that body language is only part of the equation. You must also develop an attractive personality. Below are some tips that will teach you how to display attractive male body language.

Have Good Posture

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Although it may sound cliché, good posture is the first step to having attractive male body language. As a FTM trans guy, it is important to have a good body posture because it creates an aura of confidence around you. There is nothing more obviously unattractive than terrible posture. Slouching as you walk and sit will only show people that you do not have confidence. On the other hand, walking around with an elevated chest and shoulders back will certainly make you feel and look more attractive and manly.

Slow Down Your Movements

Men that display attractive body language are sure of themselves. Their body movements are often precise and calculated. As a FTM transgender male, you should also try to act like this. You should slow down your body movement, as this makes you look more confident and natural. Try to make your movements smooth and graceful. This does not mean you should walk like a tortoise. It simply means avoiding running around like a headless chicken.

Eye Contact

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A key aspect of good body language for both men and women is eye contact. When conversing with other people, proper eye contact is one of the main things they will immediately notice. To be an alpha male, you need to know how to maintain proper eye contact with those you are talking with. Additionally, this will certainly get you more points when conversing with women. Looking down or averting your eyes when conversing with a lady will reveal a lack of confidence. On the other hand, never blinking or holding eye contact for too long can make your partner feel uncomfortable. You should learn the difference between staring and maintaining proper eye contact. Coupled with a smile, good eye contact will help you project attractive male body language.

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How to Embrace Your Femininity without Comparing Yourself to Other Ciswomen

MTF Trans Woman

There is no cookie cutter path to become a confident MTF Trans Woman. You will at times find yourself stumbling in your quest to embrace your femininity. When you stumble, find yourself envious, or compare yourself to other cis-woman, know that you are not alone. Many MTF Trans Women fall into the pit of comparing themselves with cis-women.
It is often said that comparison is the death of joy. In fact, it is one of the surest ways to lower your self-esteem. But how do you stop comparing yourself to others? Below are some valuable tips that will offer you an answer.

Realize that Comparing Yourself is Destructive

MTF Trans Woman

While comparing yourself to others is a fairly normal behavior, it can be self-destructive in many situations. This is because each person is their own worst critic, meaning when we compare ourselves to others, we tend to judge ourselves more harshly. The first step to stopping this behavior is by consciously realizing that it is destructive. You may always find cis-women to be pretty, but their beauty has nothing to do with yours. You are beautiful in your own way separate from them.

Focus on Yourself

For you to make positive strides on your journey to embrace your femininity, you should compare yourself only to yourself. When you look at yourself in the mirror, smile more vibrantly than you did yesterday. Think about what you have achieved and all your potential for the future. When you compare yourself to yourself instead of other cis-women, you will be more appreciative of your uniqueness. Additionally, this process helps you feel good about yourself without necessarily having to think less of others.

Be Kind and Polite

The way you treat others often reflects the way you feel about yourself. As a result, showing compassion for yourself allows you to be more compassionate towards others and vice versa. If you tend to criticize other people, you will likely be more critical of yourself. However, if you are kind to others, you will almost certainly be kind to yourself.

Focus on the Positives

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Every person has flaws. A guaranteed way to magnify your flaws out of proportion is by comparing yourself with other people. People tend to present the best of themselves to the outside world both in person and on social media. You are likely comparing your flaws with the best the other person has to offer; it is not a fair comparison. Instead of comparing yourself with other people, try to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your life. Make it a habit to think positively about yourself and others.

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Embracing the Journey from Female to Male

Female to Male

In this world, there are people who are born female but identify as male. Such people yearn to transition to the gender they have always identified with. If you are a female who identifies with the male gender, understand that you are not alone. Thanks to the advancement of technology, you can physically transition to the male you have always been.

Female to MaleThe surgery that will enable you to transform from female to male is known as Sex Reassignment Surgery. This surgery alters your physical features to match those of the male gender. It involves two stages: the upper surgery and the bottom surgery. The upper surgery includes a double mastectomy and the reconstruction of the chest. This will get rid of your bust and give you a flat, manly chest. The bottom surgery involves a surgery known as RFF Phalloplasty. This procedure involves the use of skin and veins from the forearm to construct a male phallus. Apart from RFF Phalloplasty, there is another similar procedure called ALT Phalloplasty that uses skin and veins from the thighs to make a male phallus instead.

Transitioning from female to male is a unique journey for each person who chooses to undertake it. You not only have to transition physically but socially as well. Below are some insightful tips that will help you learn how to embrace your journey from female to male.

Accept Yourself

Just because you do not identify with the gender you received at birth does not make you a basket case. It is perfectly normal not to identify with the gender assigned at birth. Many people, unfortunately, are faced with gender dysphoria due to this situation. Therefore, it is essential to accept who you are. In fact, accepting yourself is a vital step in your transitioning process.

Start by Coming Out

The best starting point for your transition is to come out. While this step may be uncomfortable, you need to take it nonetheless. Your family, friends, and loved ones need time to adjust to the news. Even after your physical transformation it might take time because people were used to the female you. During this step, you will need a strong support system, so finding friends and family members who are accepting of your change should be a priority.

Start Acting/Dressing like a Guy

Female to Male

Social transformation is an important step on your journey to embracing your masculinity. You can start your social transformation simply by acting and dressing like a guy. You cannot expect people to address you as a “he” when you are dressed in clearly feminine clothes. Remember: the acting will eventually have to stop for you to become the real you, meaning it will eventually become your reality and not an act. There are various websites online where you can read about how to project a manly image.

Seek Professional Help

For your physical transformation, you will need professional help. You should begin by talking to a therapist, who can help you with the emotional problems you may be going through. Next, you should look for a professional doctor who can advise you on the best route to follow for your physical transformation.

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Effective Tips For Dating A FTM Transgender Guy

FTM Trans Guys

Relationships are tough. They are marred by a plethora of complications, including poor communication, petty disagreements, and jealously. However, there are some relationships that come with their own unique challenges. One such relationship would be with a FTM transgender guy. If you are a tough cookie who has been eyeing a hot FTM trans guy, there are several tips below that can help you have a smooth relationship with him.

FTM Trans Guys Are Different

Although it may sound cliché, it is worth mentioning that, just like everyone else, transgender guys are not all the same. They come from different backgrounds in terms of culture, race, religion, etc. Also, their transitioning periods have not been the same. Remembering this is important because it will help you get to know them on a personal level.

Additionally, it is important to note that transgender guys have the same social, romantic, and sexual needs as anyone else. However, their needs might be slightly different compared to other cis men you have dated before.

Your Relationship Might Be Perceived Differently By Other People

FTM Trans GuysOne of the unique challenges that comes with dating a transgender guy is people making assumptions about your relationship. Because you are dating a FTM transgender guy, some people might assume that you are gay. Even if you say otherwise, your family members and friends could still secretly think that you are gay. Being labeled as gay because of your partner’s gender identity can seem cruel and unfair. Nonetheless, you should expect some confusion and learn how to handle intolerance.

Be Prepared To Support Your Trans Guy

Transitioning is no walk in the park. Worse, some transgender people lack support when they come out. Even their friends and family members may offer them a cold shoulder. Therefore, it is important to support your transgender man. Transgender guys are constantly faced with the challenge of projecting a strong male image. Complimenting his efforts to be manly would go a long way in helping him feel more comfortable with his masculinity.

In addition, if your man has any issues with his body, be supportive. If he wants to keep his shirt on while having sex, do not force him. Over time you can find a slow but loving way to get his shirt off. If you show that you are comfortable with his body, he will certainly start becoming comfortable with himself.

Make Him Feel Comfortable With Intimacy

FTM Trans GuysCommunication is key when dating a transgender man. Make sure that you ask him about his body and his sexual needs, and find out what turns him on. By doing this, you will help him feel comfortable with intimacy. It is important to mention that some FTM Transgender Guys may dislike sexual contact that is usually enjoyed by female-bodied folk, and they may feel uncomfortable with certain aspects of the female anatomy. Therefore, make sure the two of you can discuss these things freely so that you can enjoy being intimate.

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