For Trans Men Struggling With Their Identity

Trans Men Identity

For transgender men, it may be difficult at first to understand what exactly is happening. You are in the middle of an identity crisis and you don’t know where to turn to or what to do. Some days are okay but other days you’d rather be anything but alive. Don’t worry you are not alone. Many transgender people struggle with their identity at some point in their life. Luckily all hope is not lost.

Here are a few ways in which you can deal with your identity issues:

Recognizing there is an Issue

The first thing you need to do is recognize or acknowledge that you are going through an identity crisis. This is the first step in overcoming any problem in life and without acknowledgement, there can be no progress. The issue, in medical terms, is called “dysphoria”. This is where a person’s identity does not match how they are perceived by others. It sucks being called a woman or having to wear feminine clothes when deep down you know you are a man. This leads to mental agony, social withdrawal, and even physical pain. Once you have recognized that there is an issue, you can move on to the next step.

Seeking Assistance to Deal with this Struggle

No matter how strong you think you are, everyone needs help sometimes. Struggling with your identity should not be taken lightly as it has been known to drive some people off the edge.

The next step is therefore consulting:

A Trusted Friend

There is a saying that goes “a good friend is better than pocket money”. This is very true for instances where you may be doubting yourself and are feeling low. Reassurance is great when dealing with an identity crisis and a trusted friend will keep what you are going through private and may even offer you great advice.

The Trans Community

LGBT Community

The LGBTQ community, especially the trans community is very welcoming and encourages positivity and self-love for all its members no matter what colour, shape, size or orientation they may come in. There are many trans men and trans women who have gone through what you are going through in the past and can share their story about how they overcame their identity struggles. This may provide you with the motivation you need to overcome your own identity issue and other issues you may face as a trans man.

A Medical Professional

A medical professional should be sought in cases of extreme depression and hopelessness. These persons are trained in how to deal with such cases and can even prescribe a few non-medical treatments to help you discover your true self. You should, however, be careful as some of these persons believe that this is a “disease” and will try to “cure you” and cause further confusion.

Helping Others

After seeking help and eventually overcoming your own identity issues, your last step should be helping others. It is important to help spread the love and support you had so needed because you were not the first and will certainly not be the last to face such challenges.

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Fashion and Beauty Tips for the Trans Women

Tips for the Trans Women

You’ve lived a portion of your life as a man and now you’re finally a woman. That’s great. But even the best of us struggle with finding the perfect outfits and the best makeup looks for certain occasions. Here are a few tips that are sure to help every MTF Trans Woman out there:

DOS

• Dress Your Age

You may be tempted to compensate for years lived as male but if you want to be respected as a woman you will have to dress according to your age. Therefore, if you are approaching 40 you should not be wearing jeans shorts and crop tops like a teenage girl. Women around this age are usually more refined and dress as such.

• Use Concealer

If you are still transitioning but desire to wear makeup concealer should be your best friend. A good quality concealer will hide your aftershave, the bags under your eyes and any other feature that risks you looking more masculine than feminine.

• Ask Sales Clerks for Their Opinion on Anything Before you Buy It

If you are uncertain about how an outfit looks it is best to consult the sales clerk before making a purchase. These persons are usually competent enough to determine whether a certain outfit is a good look for an individual based on factors such as height, shape, age, skin tone, etc.

• Research

If you want to be on top of the latest fashion trends and styles you will have to do your research. This involves following up fashion icons and websites both trans women and cis women. A great place to start is Instagram and Pinterest.

DON’TS

• Don’t be Afraid to Try New Things

If you are comfortable in your own skin, you should not be afraid to try new things. After all, that is what fashion is all about: mixing and matching styles and patterns you haven’t thought of before and being bold in what you decide to wear. Be mindful however of the situations you are in and carefully consider if such an outfit would be appropriate for such an event.

• Don’t Contour

Every makeup guru you watch down to teens in high school are highlighting and contouring when doing their makeup. But this doesn’t mean that you should. Contouring can do more harm than good especially if your features have not been softened by hormones or fillers. Contouring will highlight your bone structure giving you a more masculine finish. Instead, replace your contour with highlight to make your face appear softer and more feminine.

• Don’t Overdo It on the Makeup

Makeup should be used in moderation unless you are trying to hide unsightly scars or birthmarks or to color correct. If you overdo it on the makeup you risk looking more like a drag queen than a woman of stature and chances are you probably won’t be taken very seriously.

• Don’t Mix Prints, Whites or Blacks

A very simple rule for every girl to live by when it comes to everyday fashion is “Don’t mix prints, whites or blacks”. As it relates to whites and blacks, it is very hard to find two pieces of clothing that are the same shade of white or black (unless they are a part of a set) and chances are that one will throw the other off. (This does not mean they cannot mix well but you are safer avoiding that risk). Mixing prints can be very disastrous if not done correctly and chances are two unique prints will not go together. Always say no to mixing stripes and polka dots or lines and squares. This will save you from committing a fashion sin.

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Inspiring Story of A Trans Woman — Isis King

Isis King is an American actress, fashion designer, and top model. Isis was assigned male gender at birth. However, she has stated that individuals may allude to her as transgender. She was the first transgender female to contend on the show and became one of the most visible trans individuals on TV.

Isis King had been runway modelling for a long time before partaking in America’s Next Top Model. Isis is one of a small but growing number of transgender people and characters in film and television, and her inclusion on America’s Next Top Model has been called an “unprecedented opportunity” by Neil Giuliano, president of Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. By contending on the show, she has focused on national and prime time issues of sexual orientation changing and sex expression.

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HRT — Hormone Replacement Therapy

Hormone Replacement Therapy:

All you need to know about Hormone Replacement Therapy. In our last videos, we covered how to start an MTF transition, and as we promised, in this video we will explain to you what is Hormone Therapy and what are the necessary requirements to undergo such a therapy.

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Top 10 Myths and Misconceptions About Trans People

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Daniela Vega – A Transgender Woman is Breakout Oscars Star For A Fantastic Woman

Daniela Vega Hernández, otherwise called Daniela Vega.

She is a Chilean performing artist and mezzo-soprano. She is best known for her widely praised work in the Academy Award-winning “A Fantastic Woman”. At the 90th Academy Awards in 2018, Daniela turned into the principal ever transgender presenter at the Oscars.

Daniela Vega was 17-year-old when she started transitioning to female. She was fortunate that her folks were steady of her choice to do as such, as whatever remains of Chile – from her kindred understudies at an all-young men school, aggressors in the city who might toss her first floor and urinate on her, and government approach that didn’t bolster transgender tasks – were much all the more cursing.

The trans group gripes that such throwing is another indication of victimization them. As of late others have joined the battle with Transparent star Jeffrey Tambor, who stated, as he grabbed his second Emmy, that he trusted that transgender ability would be allowed to substantiate itself.

The 67th Berlin International Film Festival saw the arrival of A Fantastic Woman, a film for which her execution was acclaimed by critics.

A Fantastic Woman tells the story of Marina and Orlando, a more seasoned man with whom she is infatuated and arranging a future. After Orlando falls sick and bites the dust, Marina is compelled to confront family and society, and battle again to indicate her identity: an awesome lady.

Her name was firmly specified for an Oscar selection as Best Actress. She won an honor for her execution at the Palm Springs International Film Festival for Best Actress in a Foreign Language Film. Vega turned into the primary transparently transgender individual in history to be an Academy Awards presenter at the 90th Academy Awards in 2018.

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How to Find Love As An MTF Transgender

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Transitioning can be hard. But finding true love can be even harder. But worry not. It is not impossible. For every single person created, their partner is somewhere out there ready to give them the love, affection, and acceptance they deserve.

The first step is to finding love as an MTF transgender is to love yourself. This is one of the cornerstones of every successful and healthy relationship. Self-love and acceptance also enable you to love others without being clingy, dependent or submissive. Afterall, confidence is sexy and makes you much more attractive.

The second step to finding “the one” is to establish what you are looking for in a partner. Are you looking for someone who is spontaneous? Or someone who is more serious and career-driven? You should also consider who you are typically attracted to. Do you typically date FTM transgender singles? Or perhaps straight, cisgender men? How about a lesbian? What are your racial preferences? Black? White? Asian? You will have to decide beforehand to avoid any confusion or even to avoid spreading yourself too thin.

The next step is to open your mind to the many possibilities when it comes to dating. Love can come when you least expect it and you can fall in love with someone you would have never pictured yourself with. Do not limit yourself to a certain group of individuals because that may very well be the reason you have not found the right person as yet.

Fourthly, you should consider trying some non-traditional forms of dating. Have you ever considered online dating? Dating for MTF transgender has gotten considerably easier with the advent of various dating sites that cater to transsexual people and their needs. These transgender dating sites also serve as a platform for people to express their views in a positive environment, spreading the message of peace, love, and acceptance for all.

Another key step to finding love is being completely honest with your partner. From the onset of your relations, you should make that person privy to your gender identity in order to avoid any unfortunate or embarrassing situations. This could potentially bring you and any potential partner closer together and will allow them and perhaps the wider community to understand your transition, and hopefully others in the future in order to foster increased acceptance of the LGBT community.

MTF transgender DatingLastly, be yourself. It makes no sense to put on a show for someone to impress or attract them. Whoever the person falls in love with should be who you really are and not a character you have created. Chances are this will not end well for anyone.

Bear in mind that love does not have to be in the form of a relationship. Friends and family can also give you the healthy kind of love you deserve. Some things in life cannot be rushed or forced. What is meant to be, will be.

Simply put: Don’t give up on love and it won’t give up on you.

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Surviving in The Society: Transgender MTF

Transgender MTF

Transgender MtF (male to female) refers to a person who was AMAB—assigned the gender “male” at birth. This is mainly because they have a male body. However, they identify as female and want to be referred to as “she” because they realized while growing up that they were females, and is transitioning to life as a woman. This is perfectly normal and should be respected by the society.

Therefore calling a Transgender MtF or FtM is sometimes deemed offensive because the generally accepted term is “trans woman” instead of MtF and “trans man” instead of FtM. It is less provocative to use them except in the cases where it is certain that a person is comfortable with the terms MtF or FtM.

Identity Struggle/Finding Love

In our society, Transgender Women (male to female) has struggled with identity insecurities, deprivation and discrimination because of the common misconception held against them by the society that transsexuals are gay and mentally sick.

One of the problems a transgender MtF face while growing up is getting confused and lost whenever you look in the mirror, seeing a feminine face with a masculine body, trying to deny the fact that there is a girl begging to be let out, going through the process of realizing who you are could be uncomfortable, because of the gender stereotype the society presses on everyone.

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Transgender people suffer dysphoria (being uneasy or unsatisfied with life); this can be about their facial appearance, hair, breasts, genitalia etc. This means they might not be comfortable with this features on their body, not because the style is wrong but because it doesn’t reflect the person they know they are and can actually cause them to feel emotionally broken. The everyday struggle of finding the courage to accept who you really are, because of the false assumption people make based on a gender you did not identify with, trying to figure out if you are a girl, a boy or neither, if you would love or be loved by someone for who you truly are. A million questions keep going through your head, trying to analyze every decision you have made for clues to your questions.

Transgender MtF people find it difficult in meeting other people interested in dating a transgender man or woman due to some factors preventing them such as public prejudice and lack of privacy etc. The transgender dating site was created in order to help transgender people come together from different parts of the world. Dating site for transgender people is one of the easiest and fastest ways to find new friends, meet that special someone you can trust and also create a long-lasting relationship that can lead to love and happiness. This MtF dating site is a platform that is safe, easy and reliable and also helps you to save money by connecting you to others from the comfort of your home and it is also a place for different types of personality so you can select based on your choice.

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Passing Tips for FTM Transgender Men

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The life of a FTM Transgender Men can be very difficult, especially if they don’t pass as male. If you don’t pass as a male, going out in public can be overwhelmingly challenging and intimidating. When someone who is trying to be polite refers to you as “ma’am,” it can be detrimental to your efforts to embrace your masculinity. Below are some tips to help you pass as male in public. While these tips may not fix everything, they will at least decrease the chances of being referred to as “ma’am.”

Wear Clothes Made for Men

FTM Transgender Men

One of the easiest and simplest ways of passing as a male is by wearing male clothes. Unlike female clothes that are designed to highlight curves, men’s clothing tends to be straighter and hides curves. If your body is curvy, wearing male clothes can help you hide your curves. In particular, straight cut pants from the men’s department can help create a flatter behind.

You should try to dress more conservatively that you might have before. This will help you to avoid being mistaken for a lesbian. Simply choose a male image you want to project and cultivate a look to suit that image.

Even out Your Chest

The chest is one of the areas that gives many FTM Transgender Guys a headache. This is because it is very hard to pass as a male when you have a curvy chest. If your chest does protrude, you should invest in a good binder to flatten it. Binding your chest flattens it and gives you a masculine appearance. There are multiple types, so you must do some research and choose the binding methodology that suits you best.

As a side point, binding yourself tightly for too long might be harmful because it causes rib and back pain. It is important to use moderation and give yourself a break from binding occasionally. Also, never use tape or elastic bandages when binding your chest

Get a Hair Cut

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Long hair can have a negative impact on the male image you want to project. If you currently have medium length or long hair, it would be wise to consider a haircut. A good haircut that will certainly help you project a male image. Typical male hairstyles involve keeping your hair short in the back and on the sides.

It is often said that barbers do a much better job at providing a male haircut compared to hairdressers. However, it would be wise to try them both and see which one works better for you. You should not, however, under any circumstances take a pair of scissors and try to do the work yourself. Get a professional haircut, and it will be worth every penny.

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How to Embrace Your Femininity without Comparing Yourself to Other Ciswomen

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There is no cookie cutter path to become a confident MTF Trans Woman. You will at times find yourself stumbling in your quest to embrace your femininity. When you stumble, find yourself envious, or compare yourself to other cis-woman, know that you are not alone. Many MTF Trans Women fall into the pit of comparing themselves with cis-women.
It is often said that comparison is the death of joy. In fact, it is one of the surest ways to lower your self-esteem. But how do you stop comparing yourself to others? Below are some valuable tips that will offer you an answer.

Realize that Comparing Yourself is Destructive

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While comparing yourself to others is a fairly normal behavior, it can be self-destructive in many situations. This is because each person is their own worst critic, meaning when we compare ourselves to others, we tend to judge ourselves more harshly. The first step to stopping this behavior is by consciously realizing that it is destructive. You may always find cis-women to be pretty, but their beauty has nothing to do with yours. You are beautiful in your own way separate from them.

Focus on Yourself

For you to make positive strides on your journey to embrace your femininity, you should compare yourself only to yourself. When you look at yourself in the mirror, smile more vibrantly than you did yesterday. Think about what you have achieved and all your potential for the future. When you compare yourself to yourself instead of other cis-women, you will be more appreciative of your uniqueness. Additionally, this process helps you feel good about yourself without necessarily having to think less of others.

Be Kind and Polite

The way you treat others often reflects the way you feel about yourself. As a result, showing compassion for yourself allows you to be more compassionate towards others and vice versa. If you tend to criticize other people, you will likely be more critical of yourself. However, if you are kind to others, you will almost certainly be kind to yourself.

Focus on the Positives

MTF Trans Woman

Every person has flaws. A guaranteed way to magnify your flaws out of proportion is by comparing yourself with other people. People tend to present the best of themselves to the outside world both in person and on social media. You are likely comparing your flaws with the best the other person has to offer; it is not a fair comparison. Instead of comparing yourself with other people, try to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your life. Make it a habit to think positively about yourself and others.

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Embracing the Journey from Female to Male

Female to Male

In this world, there are people who are born female but identify as male. Such people yearn to transition to the gender they have always identified with. If you are a female who identifies with the male gender, understand that you are not alone. Thanks to the advancement of technology, you can physically transition to the male you have always been.

Female to MaleThe surgery that will enable you to transform from female to male is known as Sex Reassignment Surgery. This surgery alters your physical features to match those of the male gender. It involves two stages: the upper surgery and the bottom surgery. The upper surgery includes a double mastectomy and the reconstruction of the chest. This will get rid of your bust and give you a flat, manly chest. The bottom surgery involves a surgery known as RFF Phalloplasty. This procedure involves the use of skin and veins from the forearm to construct a male phallus. Apart from RFF Phalloplasty, there is another similar procedure called ALT Phalloplasty that uses skin and veins from the thighs to make a male phallus instead.

Transitioning from female to male is a unique journey for each person who chooses to undertake it. You not only have to transition physically but socially as well. Below are some insightful tips that will help you learn how to embrace your journey from female to male.

Accept Yourself

Just because you do not identify with the gender you received at birth does not make you a basket case. It is perfectly normal not to identify with the gender assigned at birth. Many people, unfortunately, are faced with gender dysphoria due to this situation. Therefore, it is essential to accept who you are. In fact, accepting yourself is a vital step in your transitioning process.

Start by Coming Out

The best starting point for your transition is to come out. While this step may be uncomfortable, you need to take it nonetheless. Your family, friends, and loved ones need time to adjust to the news. Even after your physical transformation it might take time because people were used to the female you. During this step, you will need a strong support system, so finding friends and family members who are accepting of your change should be a priority.

Start Acting/Dressing like a Guy

Female to Male

Social transformation is an important step on your journey to embracing your masculinity. You can start your social transformation simply by acting and dressing like a guy. You cannot expect people to address you as a “he” when you are dressed in clearly feminine clothes. Remember: the acting will eventually have to stop for you to become the real you, meaning it will eventually become your reality and not an act. There are various websites online where you can read about how to project a manly image.

Seek Professional Help

For your physical transformation, you will need professional help. You should begin by talking to a therapist, who can help you with the emotional problems you may be going through. Next, you should look for a professional doctor who can advise you on the best route to follow for your physical transformation.

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Etiquette Tips for MTF Transgender Women

MTF Women

One of the biggest challenges MTF women face is how to behave femininely. This is usually because they were brought up as males. Nevertheless, in order to transition to the woman you always were, you need to learn womanly etiquette. As an MTF trans woman, you need to realize that the way you behave is just as important as your appearance. Dressing stylishly and then acting badly will not project a feminine image.

To learn womanly etiquette, you must first know what etiquette is. Etiquette can be defined as doing and saying things appropriately in each situation. Here are a few points that will help you learn and practice womanly etiquette.

Greeting

Your greeting is the first interaction you have with another person, and your etiquette is crucial to making a good impression. However, greetings can be a potential source of embarrassment. This is particularly true of feminine greetings because there are a number of different styles depending on your culture, relationship with the other person, and situation. As a rule of thumb, greetings that involve kissing and hugging should be reserved for close friends or relatives. If you are still not sure how to great someone, let them take the lead. It is also important to mention that no matter the style you should look the person you are greeting in the eyes and smile warmly.

Avoid Laughing Loudly

As a woman, it is important you know how to smile and laugh in a feminine fashion. Laughing loudly might attract the wrong attention and have a negative impact on your feminine image. Also, when you smile, ensure that it is a genuine smile. People will notice if you are faking, and you will come across as insincere.

Use Polite Words

Words such as “please” and “thank you” are perfect examples of easy ways you can improve your etiquette as a woman. Always be polite to people not only with your words but also with your actions. This applies to both things you do and don’t do. For example, paying attention to only one person when others are present might come across as rude. You should always strive to make everyone feel comfortable and appreciated when in a group setting.

Mind Your Table Manners

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Table manners say a lot about a woman. When having a meal with other people, you should make sure that you are well versed in table etiquette. This includes how to use your napkin, when and how you use the utensils, and even how you hold your wine glass. For example, at a formal dinner, your napkin should be placed on your lap as soon as you are seated. It should remain there unless you are leaving the table.

In conclusion, although etiquette might not be the sexiest part of being a woman, it is an inherent part of being female and, therefore, cannot be overlooked.

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Effective Tips for Feminizing Your Body Movements

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If you are an MTF trans woman, then you understand that your body movements can make or break your feminine image. This is because the way you move plays a huge role in your overall look. Luckily, there are several simple techniques that a transgender woman can use to help feminize her body movements and project a feminine image.

Dress Suitably

MTF Trans WomenAs an MTF trans woman, how you dress matters. Not only does it reflect your sense of style but also how your body moves. Wearing clothes that fit your body well helps you move in a more feminine way. When practicing different body movements, you should avoid baggy clothes. If you are used to pants or jeans, change to skirts and dresses. The way you walk and sit are very different if you are wearing a skirt. Also, skirts help your body movement appear more profound. However, short skirts should be avoided.

Be Moderate

Many transgender women make the mistake of over-exaggerating their body movements. They think they will appear to be more feminine if they display such traits even more prominently than cis women. One of the most common areas that transgender women exaggerate are their hips. Swinging your hips too much looks more awkward than sexy. To master this art without overdoing it, simply put on heels and walk normally. Walking this way will make your hips sway naturally.

Avoid Poor Body Posture

Your body posture is the foundation of all your movements. If you want to feminize your body movements, start by mimicking feminine posture. An example of poor body posture you should avoid is slouching. Many tall MTF trans woman make the mistake of slouching to minimize their height. Also, don’t arch your back to make your butt stick out more, as you are more likely to look silly than sexy.

Mind How You Sit and Walk

MTF Trans WomenIf you have lived all your life in “male mode,” adjusting how you sit and walk can be challenging. However, that does not mean it’s impossible. As a rule of thumb, always make sure that your knees are together when seated; there is nothing that can kill your feminine posture more than sitting down with your legs apart. Also, it is important to keep your head up and your elbows in when walking. Tucking your elbows in makes your feminine movements more profound.

Stretch Out Regularly

To feminize your body movements, you must have a body that is neither tense nor tight. Improving your flexibility can be achieved by stretching regularly. Stretching out will not only improve your body movements but also help you to have a fit and healthy body.

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Ways To Impress A Transgender Woman

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Despite the milestones that have been reached in the social emancipation of transsexuals, the idea of dating a transgender woman remains a distant thought for most straight men. However, there are some brave souls who have decided that there is nothing wrong with dating a transsexual woman. These men gallantly visit transgender dating sites looking to find the perfect match. If you are one of these brave souls, then it is important for you to arm yourself with some surefire ways to impress a transgender woman. These tips will not only help you to woo a transgender but also will help ensure a happy relationship.

Compliment

An honest compliment will go a long way in helping you impress a transsexual woman. Even when you are just chatting on a transgender dating site, make sure that you pass a few compliments to your partner in order to get things moving. Honest compliments are very important because they provide validation for the transsexual woman. The sense of affirmation that comes from a well-meant compliment is very important for how she feels as a woman.

Have a Plan

After you have wooed a transsexual woman from a transsexual dating site, you should always have a plan for your first date. Transsexual Woman love a man who can take the lead; therefore, being wishy-washy with your plans can be a complete turn-off. Given that you have already chatted with her online, it is important to be creative and plan something that is related to her interests. Recognizing and partaking in activities she enjoys will certainly impress her.

Be Trans-Sensitive

It is important to treat a transgender woman just as you would a cisgender woman. When out on a date, treat her with respect and engage her in meaningful conversation. If you have questions about her transition process, save them for another time. The two of you are on a date; this is not the time for an interrogation or an interview. It is also important, for the obvious reasons, to avoid insulting or using insensitive words, such as tranny, she-male, he/she, shim, or it. These words are dehumanizing to transgender people and should not even cross your mind when dating a transsexual woman.

Be Punctual

Although this might sound like an easy task, many men still show up late even on the first date. Being late will never impress a woman, transsexual or not. Show that you value her time by being punctual and prepared. Your date will certainly be impressed.

Be a Gentleman

There is no substitute for being a gentleman when dating a transsexual woman. If you want to impress her and win her affections, it is of the utmost importance that you are on your best behavior. Additionally, it is not enough to only be polite and courteous to her; you should also extend those chivalrous manners to everyone else you encounter while on your date, including service people and other guests. Finally, it is generally accepted that the gentleman should pay for the first date. Subsequent dates, however, can and should be split in whatever way suits you and your partner.

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Laverne Cox: Bright Star and Transgender Activist

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