Tips for Trans Women: How to Save Your Relationship with a Woman

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To be able to give love, you have to love yourself first. This is a hackneyed phrase but it really applies to everyone especially for trans women who are in a relationship with a woman.

When your closet gets loaded with all your girly stuff, you’ll have a difficult time choosing which one to wear. Just like in love, when you keep a lot of things hidden, it will be hard to make your relationship flourish. There should be transparency between two people so that both parties get to focus on nourishing their connection rather than keeping a secret.

Hiding anything from your partner will only bring you too much stress. She is constantly beside you and there’s no way you can stop her from noticing even the slightest changes in your ways.

It is understandable that you are concerned about how the woman in your life will react to you being a trans woman. But you should not focus on that because no matter how many times you think about it, you will not know her response until you tell her the real you.

True love knows no boundary. Your partner may not have the best reaction when she discovers you are a trans woman. But if her love is pure, she will eventually understand. If she lets love prevail, she will come to realize how wonderful it is to know you deeper. She will appreciate your honesty and she will take pleasure in seeing you exude with happiness the moment you go out in the open.

Male to Female Trans WomanAdmitting you are a trans woman does not make your love for your wife or girlfriend any less. Let her feel you would stand by her despite all the changes that are about to happen. The following tips can help you save your relationship with a woman as you try to enjoy your feminine side.

  • The goal is to express yourself to your partner without inhibitions. Make it gentle until she gets used to it. Continue bonding with her but this time, you can share a more feminine activity together such as polishing your nails or taking on a skincare routine.
  • Be consistent in reminding her how much she means to you. Let her know you love her and assure her that you will no longer keep a secret from her.
  • Do not take it against her if there are times she will feel uncomfortable. Give her time to adjusting to the situation.
  • When you feel like she has fully accepted it, you can be more articulate about the things that make you happy. Because she loves you for who you are, she’ll eventually find happiness in anything that pleases you.
  • Make friends with other people but make sure she knows about it. You can join a transgender dating site and be honest about it. If you think she is not open about you having multiple sex partners, give her an assurance that you will not get into anything sexual.
  • Ask her to learn more about transgender individuals by means of reading. She may also explore a transsexual dating site to advance her knowledge.
  • Let her speak with women who have gone through the same experience so she’ll understand how to make your relationship work.
  • Seek professional help if you have to. There are mediators who can help the two of you cope with this phase a lot easier.

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A Guide to Dating Transgender Woman 

Dating Transgender Women

Dating a transgender woman is not easy; it is neither for the faint-hearted nor the lecherous. Dating a transgender woman is reserved for brave men, men who are resolute and honest with their intentions. If you are one of these brave souls, then you understand the importance of doing your homework before dating a transgender woman. This homework includes researching the nuts and bolts of a relationship with a trans woman, which may be difficult as true and practical information is often hard to come by. Fortunately, if you have been wondering what it would be like to date a trans woman or if you have started dating one and need a guide, the following information will be very useful.

Research

Before you begin your search for a trans woman on a Transgender Dating Site, it is important to research and understand the various aspects of transgender people. This will help prepare you for what to expect and lessen the burden of your future partner. Dating a trans woman demands mutual compatibility and common interests just like any other relationship, and the two can only be found after painstaking and thorough research. Improving your knowledge about transgender people and what they go through will help you dispel some of the myths that surround transsexualism.

Avoid Transsexuality Talk During Your Dates

Even though you might be curious, never make the mistake of delving too deep into the subject of trans-sexuality. Just as curiosity killed the cat, it could also kill your relationship with a trans woman. It is possible that the subject might pop up later, but in the beginning, it is better to err on the side of caution and steer away from potentially awkward subjects. Even if she initiates the subject it would be best to proceed carefully. However, when she expresses willingness to talk about trans-sexuality, listen keenly and without judgment. As with all personal matters, you should understand that most transgender women are uncomfortable thinking about their sex/gender/surgical state, let alone talking about it.

First Impression Matters

Dating Transgender Women

If you are dating a transgender woman, then you clearly understand the elaborate sense of fashion they have and the effort they place into their looks. Transgender women do their best to look womanly and attractive. You should be appreciative of your companion’s appearance and also complement their efforts by putting effort into your dress and maintenance as well. This is particularly crucial on your first date when you are hoping to make the best impression possible. Do not expect to impress a transgender woman if you show up looking like a dog’s dinner.

Be a Gentleman

Some transgender women are even more feminine than their cisgender counterparts are. Therefore, you should endeavor to treat them as you would any other woman by acting like a gentleman and treating them with care and respect. Don’t let sex be the main focus of your conversation, as focusing on sex talk might signal that you are only interested in sex. Engage your date in meaningful conversation, listen when she talks, and smile so that she feels safe and comfortable. Good things happen when a woman feels safe with a man.

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Introducing A Transgender Woman to Your Family and Friends

Transgender Relationship

Introducing your significant other to your family and friends can be a nerve-racking affair. If your significant other is a transgender woman, the tension can skyrocket to nearly palpable levels. If your family and friends are the puritanical types, introducing your transgender partner would definitely make you feel sweaty like a sinner in church. However, love conquers all; hence as a man, you have to step up to the podium and let the world know that your heart has chosen a transgender woman and nothing, or no one, will change your mind. Below are some tips that will help you in introducing your transgender woman to your family and friends:

Assure her of your love

Before introducing your transgender woman to your family, make sure you have assured her of your unconditional love for her. Tell her, no matter how cold your family and friends might react to the news, it won’t change how you feel about her, nor will it lead to a breakup. You have to know that just because you have taken the step of introducing your transgender woman to your family and friends, they might not see you as brave. In fact, some will even tell you that you are gay. Whilst guaranteeing your trans woman of your love and loyalty for her, you should also determine whether she is comfortable with you revealing your relationship to your family and friends.

Plan

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The two of you should also sit down and plan how you will handle both negative and positive reactions from friends and family. It is important to have reasonable expectations of your family and friends reactions because you know them. If you have an insensitive friend or family member, warn your transgender woman early so that she will be prepared for insensitive comments. The two of you should also plan on how and when the “big reveal” will be made. If your family and friends are brutally judgmental, then it is advisable to make the announcement when your partner is not around. This ensures that their insensitivity does not hurt your transgender lover’s feelings.

Stand up for your lover

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Every man who loves his transgender lady should always stand up for her. When you introduce your transgender woman to your friends and family, you can expect that they will have a variety of reactions because every person is different. However, you should not let anyone disrespect her in any way. It would be more effective, to be honest, and straightforward to people you deem ignorant and intolerant of your transgender woman. When you find someone you love, you are already a winner, and the prejudiced opinions of your family and friends should be secondary. Even if they don’t accept your transgender woman, they have no right to disrespect her in any way. If you truly love your transsexual lady, dropping an insensitive friend won’t be a problem.

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