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Tips for Trans Women: How to Save Your Relationship with a Woman

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To be able to give love, you have to love yourself first. This is a hackneyed phrase but it really applies to everyone especially for trans women who are in a relationship with a woman.

When your closet gets loaded with all your girly stuff, you’ll have a difficult time choosing which one to wear. Just like in love, when you keep a lot of things hidden, it will be hard to make your relationship flourish. There should be transparency between two people so that both parties get to focus on nourishing their connection rather than keeping a secret.

Hiding anything from your partner will only bring you too much stress. She is constantly beside you and there’s no way you can stop her from noticing even the slightest changes in your ways.

It is understandable that you are concerned about how the woman in your life will react to you being a trans woman. But you should not focus on that because no matter how many times you think about it, you will not know her response until you tell her the real you.

True love knows no boundary. Your partner may not have the best reaction when she discovers you are a trans woman. But if her love is pure, she will eventually understand. If she lets love prevail, she will come to realize how wonderful it is to know you deeper. She will appreciate your honesty and she will take pleasure in seeing you exude with happiness the moment you go out in the open.

Male to Female Trans WomanAdmitting you are a trans woman does not make your love for your wife or girlfriend any less. Let her feel you would stand by her despite all the changes that are about to happen. The following tips can help you save your relationship with a woman as you try to enjoy your feminine side.

  • The goal is to express yourself to your partner without inhibitions. Make it gentle until she gets used to it. Continue bonding with her but this time, you can share a more feminine activity together such as polishing your nails or taking on a skincare routine.
  • Be consistent in reminding her how much she means to you. Let her know you love her and assure her that you will no longer keep a secret from her.
  • Do not take it against her if there are times she will feel uncomfortable. Give her time to adjusting to the situation.
  • When you feel like she has fully accepted it, you can be more articulate about the things that make you happy. Because she loves you for who you are, she’ll eventually find happiness in anything that pleases you.
  • Make friends with other people but make sure she knows about it. You can join a transgender dating site and be honest about it. If you think she is not open about you having multiple sex partners, give her an assurance that you will not get into anything sexual.
  • Ask her to learn more about transgender individuals by means of reading. She may also explore a transsexual dating site to advance her knowledge.
  • Let her speak with women who have gone through the same experience so she’ll understand how to make your relationship work.
  • Seek professional help if you have to. There are mediators who can help the two of you cope with this phase a lot easier.

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Having Sex With a Transgender Woman: How to Make Love With Transgender Females

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Most men on this planet will not experience the transgender sex experience due to a combination of social conditioning and internalized inhibitions; they are missing out big time. Sex with a transsexual woman is an exhilarating experience. The whole experience is further enhanced due to the novelty factor and the knowledge that most men will go to the grave without experiencing this “forbidden” pleasure.

There are two types of transgender women: ones who have had Vaginoplasty and those who have not. The sexual experience with both of them is different and, in their own way, exciting. Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh and may feel better than that of a cis-woman. Many Trans women have had this surgery, and most contemplate having it.

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Trans women who have had vaginoplasty have sex just like cis-women. Do not believe what they show in porn; Trans women are women and are not some dominatrix. They expect to be led into the bedroom. Trans women can be really shy, and therefore it is up to the man to lead in the bedroom. Also, men have to be gentle with these women, as they might not be used to their newly implanted vaginas.

Trans women who have not had vaginoplasty usually make up for it with their stunner bodies. It is very possible that Trans women usually have better-proportioned bodies than cis-women, which helps during lovemaking. Sex with Trans women who have not had the surgery is different, and it really helps if you are bisexual. If you are not, then this is the best chance for you to try. Anal sex rates among the top sexual fantasies of all men and this are the perfect opportunity for you to indulge in that fantasy. It is, however, different from homosexual sex as you are having sex with a woman.

Make Love With Transgender Females

Sex with a transsexual woman is a really passionate affair, and you get to connect with your animal side during the whole episode. Trans women may be extremely feminine during the date, but in bed, they have a sexual appetite that very few cis-women can compete with. It is a raunchy and passionate affair. Most cis-women have a certain frigidity to them that does not allow them to totally open up during the lovemaking, but there is no such problem with Trans women.

While making love with a transgender woman, the most important thing to remember is to forget everything that you might have seen in transgender porn. There will be no dominatrix role play (at least not at first). Go about the lovemaking like you would normally, and allow the sexual tension to build up. Start by helping her get warmed up to you before making your move. Then take the lead and let love take its course.

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Introducing A Transgender Woman to Your Family and Friends

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Introducing your significant other to your family and friends can be a nerve-racking affair. If your significant other is a transgender woman, the tension can skyrocket to nearly palpable levels. If your family and friends are the puritanical types, introducing your transgender partner would definitely make you feel sweaty like a sinner in church. However, love conquers all; hence as a man, you have to step up to the podium and let the world know that your heart has chosen a transgender woman and nothing, or no one, will change your mind. Below are some tips that will help you in introducing your transgender woman to your family and friends:

Assure her of your love

Before introducing your transgender woman to your family, make sure you have assured her of your unconditional love for her. Tell her, no matter how cold your family and friends might react to the news, it won’t change how you feel about her, nor will it lead to a breakup. You have to know that just because you have taken the step of introducing your transgender woman to your family and friends, they might not see you as brave. In fact, some will even tell you that you are gay. Whilst guaranteeing your trans woman of your love and loyalty for her, you should also determine whether she is comfortable with you revealing your relationship to your family and friends.

Plan

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The two of you should also sit down and plan how you will handle both negative and positive reactions from friends and family. It is important to have reasonable expectations of your family and friends reactions because you know them. If you have an insensitive friend or family member, warn your transgender woman early so that she will be prepared for insensitive comments. The two of you should also plan on how and when the “big reveal” will be made. If your family and friends are brutally judgmental, then it is advisable to make the announcement when your partner is not around. This ensures that their insensitivity does not hurt your transgender lover’s feelings.

Stand up for your lover

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Every man who loves his transgender lady should always stand up for her. When you introduce your transgender woman to your friends and family, you can expect that they will have a variety of reactions because every person is different. However, you should not let anyone disrespect her in any way. It would be more effective, to be honest, and straightforward to people you deem ignorant and intolerant of your transgender woman. When you find someone you love, you are already a winner, and the prejudiced opinions of your family and friends should be secondary. Even if they don’t accept your transgender woman, they have no right to disrespect her in any way. If you truly love your transsexual lady, dropping an insensitive friend won’t be a problem.

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