One of the greatest challenges a Trans Man face is to accept, embrace and love oneself. To accept themselves for whom they are, their feelings and needs and accepting the fact that not everyone you hold dear to your heart will agree to all your decisions in every step of the way. But choosing to love and honour yourself as a Transgender Man, instead of trying to force others to do it for you every day is the best decision you could ever make in life. We have to understand that our greatest task is not about finding self-love; it’s about breaking down the walls we have built against it in order to know and love yourself, despite our humanness, our flaws, and our rejections.
One of the greatest challenges an FTM Transgender Guy face is to accept, embrace and love oneself. To accept themselves for whom they are, their feelings and needs and accepting the fact that not everyone you hold dear to your heart will agree to all your decisions in every step of the way. But choosing to love and honour yourself as a Transgender Guy, instead of trying to force others to do it for you every day is the best decision you could ever make in life. We have to understand that our greatest task is not about finding self-love; it’s about breaking down the walls we have built against it in order to know and love yourself, despite our humanness, our flaws, and our rejections.
Ways to love oneself:
- Tell yourself the things you love about you by believing in your abilities because you are a rare gem.
- Start giving yourselves credit for everything you are and everything you’re about to become.
- Avoid perfectionism because understanding nobody is perfect would make you happier and prevent you from making mistakes, so focus on being a better you by accepting who you are and embracing your flaws.
- Holding a grudge against yourself is wrong, so one needs to let go and forgive their past mistakes. Always stay positive and overcome negative beliefs about yourself.
- Building a strong connection with your inner self.
- Work on your self-trust.
- And most importantly, take care of yourself.
Earth is filled with over 7 Billion people; you shouldn’t feel lesser or subjected to accept the negative thoughts or opinions of other people. Be the best FTM Trans Guy you can be for yourself and society, and also treat people the way you desire to be treated.
Instead of worrying yourself thinking “I am an incomplete human because I am an FTM Transgender Guy”, you need to think “I am an incredible, special, wonderful and beautiful human being with an overwhelming sense of touch and understanding and is capable of love. Believe you are a source of many wonderful things, and if you desire the need to remember what they are from time to time, make yourself a feel-good list. Keep coming back to the love that is inherently yours, it is your birthright and so it is. Value the good parts of you as well as the parts that you think needs improvement.
Learn to admit judgment against yourself and soften those judgments, so that every part of yourself can be valued to the highest level there is. Additionally, it is imperative you learn to commit yourself to shift your focus from judgment and criticism to tolerance and compassion. You are a victim of the beliefs you live by, you have the power to create a unique person out of yourself, don’t stop being the best Trans Man you can be.
We sometimes live in bondage of the mental cage we construct by ourselves, be free and love yourself for who you are.
Instead of believing in the idea of other people loving you, Understand the need to love yourself first.
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Bernard - August 7, 2018 @ 19:13
I know that we need to accept and love ourselves, but sometimes I wish I were born male so I wouldn’t get too many problems in my life. I mean it would be easier to be cis than trans, especially when you’re going to meet new people or community.